If you are considering breaking up and getting back together, or have
already done so, there are a few things you should know about this course of
action. You should note the reasons you both are breaking up, ask yourself what
it would be like if you got back together with your partner, determine if you
and your partner has corrected or is at least working on the mistakes that
caused the breaking up, and consider the repercussions of taking off too soon.
There are several reasons why couples break up, most notably
that of emotional, physical and mental abuse, financial issues, lack of
communication, and lack of trust. If you or your partner was performing
physical, emotional or mental abuse, then you have to seriously ask yourself if
it is worth getting back together after breaking up. Do you or your partner
continue to put each other down or put other people down? Do either of you
criticize each other or other people without advancing practical solutions? If
you continue to do so, then that is probably why you are breaking up, and it
will likely be a determining factor that will stop you from getting back
together in a fulfilling relationship.
If there are financial issues at stake, then it is still
possible to make it work between you two. If you two love each other, then it
is conceivable that you can work through your financial difficulties. If you or
your partner need to spend a few extra hours each day working, don't
necessarily let that be an excuse for you to break up. Instead, try to schedule
some time where you can see each other after work. When you do spend time with
each other, value it and treat it as top quality time. More importantly, if you
both are committed to securing a good financial future for yourself, don't lose
faith in your partner's ability to bring in more money. Instead of criticizing,
do all you can to help encourage better ways to make it possible.If you and
your partner are considering getting back together, try and determine if you and
your partner has corrected or is at least working on fixing the mistakes that
caused the breaking up in the first place. It takes a team of two working
together to move forward. Think about the potato sack race you might have done
when you were a child. You could never say to your partner "I will jump
when you jump" because then both of you will fall. Both of you have to
jump together. With that said, consider the pros and cons of getting back
together and when you have, then make a decision for yourself. If this applies to you or anyone you know then
you are at the right place. I came across a great book recently and to be
honest with you, the book taught me that Love does not begin and end the way we
seem to think it does. Love is a battle, love is a war; love is a growing up
that Love does not dominate; it cultivates and most importantly that Love is a
game that two can play and both win. I believe you will want to learn how. And
may also be wondering why i am sharing this information with you, well if i
don't share it with you because this great book was written by a man who has
helped 50,119 people from 77 different countries with their love lives i can
share it with you because he brought me and my wife back stronger after 5 years
of divorce and if not because of that at
least i can let you know that this great gift is selling at a reduced price
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